The information that we get--regarding the exact Java version, the CPU type, and info about the operating system is extremely valuable for us making decisions about what we support with our (extremely limited) resources (Casey and I).
If there's another way to get the same information via JavaScript, we'd happily do that. (Not similar, the same.)
We don't particularly like having a JVM kick on when you visit the home page, but to be honest, the likelihood that you'll be seeing a Java applet soon is awfully high.
I'm sorry that it can crash some Linux browsers, but we can't be blamed for that, and the percentage of people this affects is not enough to outweigh its usefulness to us. (And if you know that Java crashes your browser, why isn't it turned off already?)
I'm not aware (and I'd be surprised if Sun were aware) of the Java plugin simply crashing Windows machines. That's a showstopper--there's no point in making a Java plugin if its sole purpose (delivering applets) is actually broken. I can imagine that there is some smaller percentage for whom it's broken, but again, this number is outweighed by the usefulness to us, and Sun (or Microsoft or Mozilla or whomever) needs to fix the bug.
One thought would be that we could set a cookie, and only load the applet for people who haven't been cookie-fied. This would be a bit of hacking, but might be worthwhile to lessen the annoyance of the startup (which I see as a bigger issue than the crashing).
Or Sun could get their s* together and release Java 6u10 for Windows and Linux, and Apple could follow suit in some time shorter than 18 months and without waiting for Snow Leopard. (Don't mind if I just blame someone else, do you?
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